All in the family!
03/01/2023
My name is Jim Hendricks, and I am an Alcoholic.
My grandfather died of this disease. My father drove my grandfather to Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) meetings in the 60’s, because my grandfather had lost his license to drive. But my grandfather never got sober. In 1979, my father’s drinking had become serious, and due to his exposure to AA in the 60’s, he knew where to go.
I was 18 when my father got sober, and I was well into my addiction at that age. I started drinking and experimenting with other substances when I was 12. In AA you hear people talk about drinking, and you hear that it was fun, then it was fun with problems, and then it was just problems; that is a fairly accurate description for me as well. I drank when things were good, I drank when things were bad, I drank for no reason at all. I had blackouts and embarrassing events happening, and I failed a drug screening because I mixed other substances with alcohol.
At the age of 28, I had watched my father’s life improve because of AA. A friend of mine (a bartender in the restaurant that I worked at) had recently started attending AA meetings, and I asked if he could take me to one. I admitted that I was an Alcoholic at that meeting, and I felt a great relief. Since then, I have attended AA meetings regularly, I have a sponsor and a group of other AA members that help me, and I do the things that are suggested. The obsession to drink has been removed, and I get to live a wonderful life today.
If any of this sounds familiar to you or someone you love, reach out to me or the Peer Volunteer Program; we have been there, and we have found a better way.
Jim Hendricks
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